Solving the sudoku of Love- A LOVE QUESTION asked by our reader

Question: Hello, my girlfriend has problem with me these days.. she doesnt talk to me and avoids me. she got admission into post graduate degree..now she cuts my phone and dont even come on weekends for dinner.we use to have once a week dinner. i am afrad he has got another boyfreind. what to do?Pls dont use my name - Suspecting Boyfriend

Tanisha Says: Dear Suspecting boyfriend, Nowadays you seem to feel insecure with her admission into post graduate degree. From your tone of asking the question, it is clearly seen that you are suspecting your girlfriend. Maybe,she is unable to fine quality time with you which she used to earlier. She maybe in her lectures when you must be calling. Try to understand her situation as well. As post graduate degree requires constant effort,that may have left her with no time even on weekends to spend many hours with you as the research, dissertation etc must be taking all her time. Its not necessary that she hates you and she doesn't want you in her life. Try to understand her and be with her most of  the time. Try to drop her to her college and spend few but quality time in small small moments. Hope this would help solve your problem. Cheers and Have a lovely life.

Pranay Says:My dear friend, first of all, stop thinking negative. Have a positive and calm approach towards this situation. If you think, she is going around with some other boy, then one thing can be done. Try to contact her close friends in her college and tell them about her updates in her college. Her activities and all. Try to ask them clearly what is cooking! If you are satisfied with your observation, then carry on the relationship ahead and don't think much of negativity in your relationship. Then you must not suspect her. Try to find out the reason why she cuts down your phone. Does she call back? If yes, then she might be busy then,if no, i already suggested you an idea! Anyways, first quench your ego and ask her directly, firmly! And also try to ask her friends about her activities. Maybe you will get to know real about her!I hope all is fine! and dont worry, she will be back with you soon. Let her complete her studies and soon you will be a couple. Cheers!

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Question: I am in a relationship from past 1 year. My boyfriend is sweet and i love him but dont know what happens.Almost everyday, on simple and baseless things, we start fighting. The fight starts as an argument and the that tension remains for the entire day. When i think about this, i feel i love him a lot but we continuously fight a lot. Please help us out! - Tensed Girlfriend

Tanisha Says: Dear Tensed Girlfriend, in every relationship,fights and arguments do happen but that doesn't mean the love has started deteriorating. This is the major problem leading to break ups. Sit back and relax dear! Think with calm mind. The major cause of your fights on baseless things must be misunderstanding.Make up a list in your mind what causes these misunderstandings. Do you to talk and text at timings not suitable for him? or does he do that? Much similar issues must be leading to fights. Try to find out the reason. Understand your partner at all times.Discuss it together what causes this misunderstanding and Experience the change in your relationship Good Luck! You can further read an article on Understanding to know more about how important Understanding is in a relationship.

Pranay Says: Why are you Tensed? The solution lies in your question itself. When the thing is baseless, why discuss?Stop then and there. and  when argument starts, Switch off both of yours EGO. EGO  has no place in any relationship. When you both start an argument, its not necessary every-time that some one has to win. Come to a point where you both agree each other. Accept it. Dont let EGO hinder the loveliness in your relationship.See, dear,when you love him and when he loves you, why be sad the entire day.Try to make each other normal after your fight, if it occurs! Try to meet up.Look into each other's eyes. Spend some time in silence with each other.Sweetness will be back.No more EGO, no more fights. God Bless!

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