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Question: Hello, my girlfriend has problem with me these days.. she doesnt talk to me and avoids me. she got admission into post graduate degree..now she cuts my phone and dont even come on weekends for dinner.we use to have once a week dinner. i am afrad he has got another boyfreind. what to do?Pls dont use my name - Suspecting Boyfriend

Tanisha Says: Dear Suspecting boyfriend, Nowadays you seem to feel insecure with her admission into post graduate degree. From your tone of asking the question, it is clearly seen that you are suspecting your girlfriend. Maybe,she is unable to fine quality time with you which she used to earlier. She maybe in her lectures when you must be calling. Try to understand her situation as well. As post graduate degree requires constant effort,that may have left her with no time even on weekends to spend many hours with you as the research, dissertation etc must be taking all her time. Its not necessary that she hates you and she doesn't want you in her life. Try to understand her and be with her most of  the time. Try to drop her to her college and spend few but quality time in small small moments. Hope this would help solve your problem. Cheers and Have a lovely life.

Pranay Says:My dear friend, first of all, stop thinking negative. Have a positive and calm approach towards this situation. If you think, she is going around with some other boy, then one thing can be done. Try to contact her close friends in her college and tell them about her updates in her college. Her activities and all. Try to ask them clearly what is cooking! If you are satisfied with your observation, then carry on the relationship ahead and don't think much of negativity in your relationship. Then you must not suspect her. Try to find out the reason why she cuts down your phone. Does she call back? If yes, then she might be busy then,if no, i already suggested you an idea! Anyways, first quench your ego and ask her directly, firmly! And also try to ask her friends about her activities. Maybe you will get to know real about her!I hope all is fine! and dont worry, she will be back with you soon. Let her complete her studies and soon you will be a couple. Cheers!

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