Thursday, February 4, 2010

When friendship turns into love..

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"Friendship" is the most important thing and one of the most beautiful thing in this world.Friends are something who are more close than you than anyone else because they are with you most of the hours and even then they are apart with communication gap, the memories of moments spent with them makes anybody smile. Friendship ranges from a tiny tot with a tiny girl in the kindergarten, that's the most innocent form of friendship. Friendship with classmates, teachers , parents , cousins are really important but friendship with someone special is taken into account here. Friendship plays major part in any relationship. A failed relationship does not lack love, trust or confidence. It lacks 'Friendship'! There may be different bonding more than friendship. It may be lust, attraction but when there is a special friendship bonding between two soulmates, it is named as "Love". Love is part of Friendship. There are some moments when one may feel that it is more than friendship. Here i list down some important points which i personally felt that this friendship is turning it a really amazing and beautiful thing called "LOVE"

  • The feeling of oneness: I am not talking about possessiveness! the feeling of Oneness is different from it. When one feels that the other is really close to self and treats the partner as he/she treats self, the feeling so, is called feeling of oneness. Feeling of oneness brings closeness to heart.
  • The feeling of presence: Do you feel your partner's presence with you in every situation,good or bad? If yes, then the soul is getting connected.If you think about what he/she is doing right now or If you can say what your partner is doing at a particular moment, without being present there,that is called feeling of presence, distance don't matter.If you are 500 kms far and still you can feel your partner's presence in your heart, that's love!
  • The feeling of Care: Worried about him or her. Constantly says to avoid something like not talking on cellphone or wearing helmet while driving, not to board the rushing train or stand hanging on the bus.CARE- that is natural because if you dont want to lose him/her, it comes naturally. If you feel that you like talking to them when not feeling well and after talking you just jump out of the bed, back normal, yes thats care! Understand your partner's care and appreciate. If you do so, Go on , Soul is getting one!
  • ONE: Feel as if you are talking with your self when you are talking with your partner? Share everything, even the smallest thing on day to day activities? Your soul is connected now. 
Your heart and mind may fall in love with many people but your soul falls in love just once in a lifetime. You can feel your soul connected easily. There are noways to check whether it is connected,you will get the signals from it directly. Just speak up your mind. Dont be afraid! If you connected by Soul, there will be no negative answer.but remember, never let friendship go down! Always be best friends forever because that friendship connected your soul.

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