Apologizing to Your Girlfriend Isn't Easy - Here Are 5 Ways That Work

Go get your girlfriend back with following tips

If you'd like to get your relationship back on an even keel, you're going to have to apologize to her, regardless of why she's upset. Keep in mind, though, that your apology can repair your relationship or destroy it altogether. Following these five steps should help you keep your relationship together and make it grow.

Step 1: If it really is your fault, man up and take responsibility.

Admitting that you're wrong isn't easy. Your only reasonable first step in making amends is to admit your mistake, if in fact you made one. What kind of a man makes excuses when he's at fault? Stand up and take responsibility! You've got to tell her what it was you did wrong, and then - and this is essential - you must promise never to do it again. Apologizing isn't complete if you don't take responsibility for what you did wrong.

Step 2: Don't make her reaction be the heart of another argument.

Forgive and forget is great advice, but don't expect your girlfriend to follow it as soon as you apologize. Some girls are quicker to forgive and move on than others, and your mistake also will influence how long it takes. When a guy mans up and apologizes for something he does wrong, though, most girls worth keeping will appreciate it. Accepting the consequences - whatever she decides to do while she cools off - is another sign of a mature man. She'll see it as a display of sincerity and willingness to accept responsibility for what you've done. This is a critical element of the apology.

Step 3: Calm down and cool off!

Pain and resentment in relationships often comes from the things we blurt out without thinking. If you're in a circumstance where something like this might happen, try to take a time-out to think things through and calm down. Anger gets all sorts of hormones and chemicals flowing in your body, and one thing that happens is that you do and say things impetuously. You've got to let tempers cool - take a walk to let things cool off. It won't help either of you if either is thinking irrationally.

Step 4: Do something to remind her you love her.

Do something for her that reflects that you put time and thought into it - prepare her favorite dinner,tune into her favorite songs or write her a poem from your heart. Whatever you do, it should be oriented to her, and you should take care of all the preparations yourself. Flowers and chocolates are traditional apology-related gifts, but don't let them take the place of a special gesture. The gesture you make must be from the bottom of your heart, though. Making such gestures and making her feel special are excellent ways to display your remorse and your desire to restore your relationship and build it. All things considered, failure to make her feel good after you apologize will diminish the value and meaning of the apology.

Step 5: Put it behind you.

The final step of the apology process is to let the issue die as you look forward to a nice future together. What good will it do to remind each other of past mistakes? Past mistakes don't contribute to today's relationship - let them go. Living for the day and building a future is difficult enough without constantly dragging up and rehashing issues from the past. You have to be concentrating on enjoying together the life you have now, no the mistakes of the past.

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You are that Guy !

You are the boy who spent your school fees on Rs.500 worth of chicken wings thereupon getting a spanking from your mother.
You are the boy who grew up to play games every week with fellow boys.
You are the boy who got a Laptop as an engagement present.
You are the boy who would eat like a boy if you lived alone, living on potato chips and Pepsi.
You are the boy who would like it very much if he didn't have to grow up.
But you are a boy who is also a guy.
You are that guy that she met at the pre-departure talk, who insulted her baby blue mobile phone in an attempt to get her phone number.
You are the guy that commented on how she stood like a dancer with her feet turned flat out.
You are that guy that apparently dedicated music to her over the radio and staked out the uni just hoping you catched a glimpse of her.
You are the guy that got lucky when you bumped into her at the traffic just outside uni on the first day of school.
You are the guy that repeated her phone number all the way home just in case you forgot it and missed the chance again.
You are the guy that she out ate on your first date.
You are the guy that had to bear all the crap when she couldn't decide who she liked better, you or some other guy back home.
You are the guy that won her heart by buying her gummi bears and walking her home from ballet in the cold.
You are the guy that she impressed by eating through half a bucket of fried chicken and then sat back and asked what's for desert.
You are the guy that had to be taught what relationships were and in turn taught her how to work hard in a relationship.
You are the guy that put your thesis on the back burner while she wigged out about her own thesis through the year.
You are the guy who proposed to her on the plane back to Melbourne and made her dizzy.
You are the guy that wanted to wear Bata shoes to the wedding and refused to be put into ill-fitting Kenneth Coles.
You are the one who got up there during your wedding and sang to your bride.
You are the guy that endured the pillows hurled at you in her sleep.
You are the guy who will go out there and look for yak's milk from Yemen if she ever demanded it.
You are the guy that buys her flowers and burns her cds just to make her smile.
You are the guy that believes, trusts and prays even when she has given up hope.
You are the guy of her dreams and her greatest fear is to live without you.
Who are you? You are that guy and I am that girl.

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Five Ways to Improve Any Relationship !!

Five Ways to Improve Any Relationship !!

* Acknowledge the big and the little things.
People want to be seen. They want their actions, attitudes, feelings and aspirations to be noticed and acknowledged. Become a person who notices.

* Give thanks and appreciation.
Thank others and they are more likely to do more of the same. Why? Because being thanked feels good. Tell them you appreciate it too.

* Give 'just because' appreciation for who they are.
Make a list of what you admire about your partner or another person. Now share that list with them. You don't have to wait for a special occasion. Surprise that special person any time.

* Take active interest.
Take a real interest in the things important to others. Listen to them and have a conversation about their hobbies, career or interests. Learn something new about the topic. It will make them feel understood and important.

* Do special things just for them.
Find out what others like. Is it cards, flowers, a foot rub, a dinner out? You may not like or want these same things and that's ok. Do something or give something they like. Make them feel special.

See how many of these you can practice in one week with special people in your life and watch the intimacy in your relationships grow. Happy loving !!

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The first song She sang for me...

Listen to this song:

	Phool Tumhe Bheja -

Watch the Video

I Love you....She sang this song for me exactly a year ago..:) :) :) :)I will always remember that for my life :)
I love you tanisha :)

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Souls are connecting...A Poem

When i saw you for the first time.... I felt heaven.

When i touched you for the first time... i felt the cotton.

You were focused on the spot light....the light of love from my heart.

Life seemed to be so fantastic being with her....

and it is fantastic to live this life everyday...

The first hug wasn't just an intimacy. It was the feeling of being in each others arms.

The first kiss that wasn't just the lips locked..that was our souls locked.

When the heart beats, it beats for you..throughout the day.

Each beat reminds of you of being in my heart, living my heart, caring my heart..

The love is in the air and it will be keep its fragrance spreading all the years of my life.

Love happened for the first time...Unknown to the world of romance..

I brought the happiness from the market of heaven to gift her the love.

The closeness between us brings the openness in our love..

I can say.. She is my soul mate...and our souls are connecting....

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Perfect partner...

 As promised to one of our readers,we come up with article about how to know whether you got a perfect partner or not! Love is all about giving and forgiving! We may come across many people whom we like and we get attracted to. May be more than one! Love is subjective and its definition is different as per individual. People may take love in their way. Try to find what is your definition for love. Dont try to reciprocate all the same things your friend/(s) might have done to get a girlfriend/boyfriend! All are different. Try to do something that your heart says. To know whether you are with your dream boy or dream girl, you may experience the change when with him/her. A thing that says you care for that person! You want to be with that person! That are also the signs of infatuation but in love, you will become selfless! You need not try. you will become selfless. Sit and think, whether you will be able to spend your life with him or her? Discuss the likes and dislikes. Love is never dominating. In love, you will always want the other one happy.

Beauty is Not what your eyes see.You don't need to be skinny and flawless to be beautiful, those who only see your beauty on the outside are ugly in the inside.

 Perfect partner is not the one whom you are physically attracted.When you proudly feel about the presence of his/her in your life, that is your perfect partner. When you feel the essence of freshness, the movement of your heart, the attraction towards his/her to be with him/her throughout the life and not the physical attraction only.When you will feel you are experiencing the beauty of her heart in your life.  When life seems to be at par with heaven, then love is the flight that is taking you as high! If you are experiencing some sensational moments, some goosebumps too, now, yes the one in your mind is your love.Go, tell your heart and tell the person how much you love..Yes, then you will feel.. I am with a perfect partner.

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Happy Birthday Tanisha!

 Letter to you Tanisha,

I have been with you from past 15 months now. I have recognized the true love in me for you my Jaan! On the occasion of your Birthday, I wish you all my warm greetings from my Heart and promise to be with you all the time forever, next to you,in my arms between deep ocean of love. Happy Birthday JANU! May God bless you with loads of happiness and Fun! God give you all the things you want in life. I made a some poem for you Janu! and Some Cards.

When i found you i became a believer now i believe we are made especially for each other. I want you in my arms , in my dreams, in reality and in Fantasy. 
I Love you!

Here's something i want to say from my heart to you through Beautiful Cards:














Happy Bithday Again. I hope you loved this Blog post! Waiting for your Reply through call or SMS.
I love you..!

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Then, you are in love.......

When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore that person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around to find them,
Then, you are in love.


Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh,
your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone.
Then, you are in love.


Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back,
to let you know of their safe arrival, your phone is quiet.
You are desperately waiting for the call!
Then, you are in love.


If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from
that special someone than other many long e-mails,
Then, you are in love.


When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the
emails or SMS messages in your phone because of one message
from that special someone,
Then, you are in love.


When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would
not hesitate to think of that special someone.
Then, you are in love.


You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend",but
you realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction,
Then, you are in love.

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Difference between Girl's and Guy's love

Girl's facts:
When a girl bumps into your arm
while walking she wants
you to hold her hand

When she wants a hug
she will just stand there

When u break a girls heart,
she still feels it when
u run into each other 3 years later

When a girl is quiet,
millions of things are running through her
mind.

When a girl is not arguing,
she is thinking deeply.

When a girl looks at you with eyes full of
questions,
she is wondering how long you will be
around.

When a girl answers, "I'm fine, " after a
few seconds,
she is not at all fine.

When a girl stares at you,
she is wondering why you are so
wonderful.

When a girl lays her head on your chest,
she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a girl says that she can't live
without you,
she has made up her mind that you are
her future.

When a girl says, "I miss you, "
no one in this world can miss you more
than that

When a girl is mean to you after a breakup
she wants you back, but she's
scared she'll get hurt and knows
you're gone forever



Guy Facts:

When a guy calls you,
he wants to be with you

When a guy is quiet,
He's listening to you...

When a guy is not arguing,
He realizes he's wrong

When a guy says, "I'm fine, " after a few
minutes,
he means it

When a guy stares at you,
he wishes you would care about him and
wonders if you do

When you're laying your head on a guy's
chest,
he has the world

When a guy calls you everyday,
he is in love

When a (good) guy tells you he loves you,
he means it

When a guy says he can't live without you,
he's with you till your done

When a guy says, "I miss you, "
he misses you more than you could have
ever missed him or anything else.

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Love....in everybody's words!

13. When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang
Up...but you miss them already when it was just two minutes
ago1

12. You read their texts over and over again...

11. You walk really slowly when you're with them...

10. You feel shy whenever you're with them...

9. When you think about them, your heart beats faster and faster...

8 . You smile when you hear their voice...

7. When you look at them, you can't see the other people around
You...
All you see is him/her...

6. You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them...

5. They become ALL you think about...

4. You get high just from their scent...

3. You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think
About them...

2. You would do anything for them...

1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole
Time.....
Thats your LOVE!

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5 points to know actually that you both are in Love...

 

"Love" What is love? We define love 'as a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude'! That is love in our words. Love can been defined in your words too! Love is really a deep but tender feeling. It is sensitive but makes the person very strong. Sometimes Love teaches you many things beautiful things but sometimes love teaches you to become hard and face the actual life! Love in anyway is a most beautiful thing God has given to us.To love others, one must love self! If you have so much love in your heart, you are the richest person on earth! The three soft and sweet words "I LOVE YOU" means a lot and those who speaks it from his/her heart, then you are in love. Here we present some tips to know actually that you both are in love...

• Eyes says it all : The Eyes are enough to say everything. Sometimes Silence tells it all! If the person eyes are shy, If you cannot look into each others eyes or feel shy to look into, the eyes says it! and then after not looking into it, you feel like to keep yourself engrossed in his/her's eyes, Thats Love!
• Skipping a beat when you have a glance of the person whom you like: It happens! Skipping beats can also be heard- "Ahh..Wow" are the general words spoken by 97% of the people in love when they see the person whom they like( A Research says it!)
• A Big smile flashes the face: In general term 'BLUSHING'. Turns your cheeks into red or a smile that remains on your face, Yes thats love!
• A Feeling of security and warmth: Do you feel secured and feel the warmth,care of the person when you both are together? This feeling is shared by both! If this feeling prevails in every meet(even if you both fight in that meet) , then you both are in Love!
• When mind and heart accepts it: There you go! The perfect combination of mind and heart says clearly "LOVE IS IN THE AIR". 

Yes indeed , love is a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude. Best luck!

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A Special World

A special world for you and me
A special bond one cannot see
It wraps us up in its cocoon
And holds us fiercely in its womb.

Its fingers spread like fine spun gold
Gently nestling us to the fold
Like silken thread it holds us fast
Bonds like this are meant to last.

And though at times a thread may break
A new one forms in its wake
To bind us closer and keep us strong
In a special world, where we belong.

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Love quotes for my love

A baby is born with a need to be loved - and never outgrows it.
Frank Howard Clark

A hug is like a boomerang - you get it back right away.
Bil Keane

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.
Ingrid Bergman

A kiss makes the heart young again and wipes out the years.
Rupert Brooke

A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
Thomas Carlyle

A man content to go to heaven alone will never go to heaven.
Boethius

A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy.
George Jean Nathan

A very small degree of hope is sufficient to cause the birth of love.
Henri B. Stendhal

A woman knows the face of the man she loves as a sailor knows the open sea.
Honore de Balzac

Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and fans fires.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld

All love shifts and changes. I don't know if you can be wholeheartedly in love all the time.
Julie Andrews

All mankind love a lover.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

As soon go kindle fire with snow, as seek to quench the fire of love with words.
William Shakespeare

At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet.
Plato

Before I met my husband, I'd never fallen in love. I'd stepped in it a few times.
Rita Rudner

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
Lao Tzu

But whether it be dream or truth, to do well is what matters. If it be truth, for truth's sake. If not, then to gain friends for the time when we awaken.
Pedro Calderon de la Barca

Can miles truly separate you from friends... If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there?
Richard Bach

Do all things with love.
Og Mandino

First love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity.
George Bernard Shaw

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Reasons to love you...

•             I can be myself when I am with you. 

•             Your idea of romance is dim lights, soft music, and just the two of us. 

•             Because you make me feel like, like, like I have never felt before. 

•             I can tell you anything, and you won't be shocked.

•             Your undying faith is what keeps the flame out of love alive  

•             You and me together, we can make magic. 

•             We're a perfect match. 

•             Thinking of you fills me with a wonderful feeling.

•             Your love gives me the feeling, that the best is still ahead. 

•             You never give up on me, and that's what keeps me going. 

•             You are simply irresistible

•             I love you because you bring the best out of me.

•             Your terrific sense of humor 

•             Every time I look at you, my heart misses a beat

•             You're the one who holds the key to my heart 

•             You always say what I need to hear (You are perfect).

•             You have taught me the true meaning of love.

•             Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything. 

•             You are my theme for a dream. 

•             I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you. 

•             When I look into your eyes, I can see your heart. 

•             Your love for me is a natural anti-depressant.

•             I love to hear your voice.

•             Your love has helped me to rediscover myself.

•             Your love is an effective anti-dote to despair.

•             I love to wake up with you by my side...It makes my days better.

•             You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what.

•             I love that feeling of being secure when you wrap your arms around me.

•             I love the way you keep your cool when I do something stupid.

•             Just being with you feels like I can defy the whole world.

•             You mean the world to me.

•             I like your small gestures that speak volumes about how much you care.

•             I love the way you treasure the gifts that I gave you.

•             I love the way you patch up with me after a tumultuous fight.

•             And, of-course, your intelligence, 'cause you were smart enough to fall in love with me ;-)

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When friendship turns into love..

 

"Friendship" is the most important thing and one of the most beautiful thing in this world.Friends are something who are more close than you than anyone else because they are with you most of the hours and even then they are apart with communication gap, the memories of moments spent with them makes anybody smile. Friendship ranges from a tiny tot with a tiny girl in the kindergarten, that's the most innocent form of friendship. Friendship with classmates, teachers , parents , cousins are really important but friendship with someone special is taken into account here. Friendship plays major part in any relationship. A failed relationship does not lack love, trust or confidence. It lacks 'Friendship'! There may be different bonding more than friendship. It may be lust, attraction but when there is a special friendship bonding between two soulmates, it is named as "Love". Love is part of Friendship. There are some moments when one may feel that it is more than friendship. Here i list down some important points which i personally felt that this friendship is turning it a really amazing and beautiful thing called "LOVE"

• The feeling of oneness: I am not talking about possessiveness! the feeling of Oneness is different from it. When one feels that the other is really close to self and treats the partner as he/she treats self, the feeling so, is called feeling of oneness. Feeling of oneness brings closeness to heart.
• The feeling of presence: Do you feel your partner's presence with you in every situation,good or bad? If yes, then the soul is getting connected.If you think about what he/she is doing right now or If you can say what your partner is doing at a particular moment, without being present there,that is called feeling of presence, distance don't matter.If you are 500 kms far and still you can feel your partner's presence in your heart, that's love!
• The feeling of Care: Worried about him or her. Constantly says to avoid something like not talking on cellphone or wearing helmet while driving, not to board the rushing train or stand hanging on the bus.CARE- that is natural because if you dont want to lose him/her, it comes naturally. If you feel that you like talking to them when not feeling well and after talking you just jump out of the bed, back normal, yes thats care! Understand your partner's care and appreciate. If you do so, Go on , Soul is getting one!
• ONE: Feel as if you are talking with your self when you are talking with your partner? Share everything, even the smallest thing on day to day activities? Your soul is connected now. 

Your heart and mind may fall in love with many people but your soul falls in love just once in a lifetime. You can feel your soul connected easily. There are noways to check whether it is connected,you will get the signals from it directly. Just speak up your mind. Dont be afraid! If you connected by Soul, there will be no negative answer.but remember, never let friendship go down! Always be best friends forever because that friendship connected your soul.

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